Dec 10, 2020 | Being
The end of the year is a popular time for reflection. We survey what we accomplished and what we didn’t. What I notice is that when it comes to people reflecting on the money they made, they spend too much time on the amount itself and not enough on the story it...
Dec 3, 2020 | Being
Across the country people are wanting nothing more than stability. They want to feel some sense of control in the midst of the chaos. We don’t know how much longer the pandemic will rage on. We don’t know yet when the economy will improve. We don’t know how the...
Nov 26, 2020 | Being
We are entering the holiday season. Thanksgiving is this week. Regardless of how COVID will shift our family gatherings this year, we need to keep our boundaries in mind. It’s easy to get together with family and slide back into old patterns because that’s where we...
Nov 19, 2020 | Being
A couple of years ago a client texted me frantically. She had just been gifted a lot of money and she was freaking out. “What did you say in response?” I asked her. “I asked them if they were sure?” she replied, clearly feeling unworthy and undeserving of the gift....
Nov 12, 2020 | Structure
When I hear people say “I can’t because I don’t have the money,” my first response is always, “That’s not true.” While I may not say that to their face, I know for a fact it’s a lie they are telling themselves. And we’ve all done it at some point. We’ve all used...
